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It’s people like you that I feel for when I was protesting the shtus of this thread. Shira is a beautiful name and I’m sure that that was the right name for your daughter. It’s absolutely ridiculous and I don’t believe that R’ Chaim says this for a millisecond. That a lot of people heard this story doesn’t make me believe it anymore. Even if he did, there is no reason to go around chastising those who follow every other posek including the posek hador, R’ Elyashiv.