PBA In order for the Meshiach to come we have to use up all of the soul created. There is a Mitzvah to be fruitful and multiply so why are you discouraging people from having children and resulting in postponing the redemption.
As far as the shidduch problem that is G-d problem. You have your responsibilities and G-d has his. Who knows what he has planned. Thirty day before a child is born it is known who they will marry.
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