Sparkly -“health – im not trying to make up assumptions about you and your marriage im just trying to think why youd talk the way you talk. (once again this is posting since its not a one on one conversation i cant be certain im understanding you right.)”
You can’t understand me even with a one on one. Why do you think you have to understand me – we don’t even know each other?
“Just when i hear someone didnt spend too much time with their wive and got divorced it makes it sound like empty nest syndrome or you werent in it for her only your children.”
Just that you didn’t hear that. For some reason you put words in and then you tried to analyze them!
“(which is why im a little against shidduchim since i will be marrying a guy who i know WELL and i love while in shidduchim you got out on a few dates barely know the person and get married. i mean im not THAT desperate to get married.”
I know a guy who does Gittin – and the most ones are the MO’s, not the Chassidish!
The trick in marriage is to listen, and not talk too much!
Ever since you came to YWN – you posted on many topics.