None of the above is “well known” at all.
Usually when women choose their clothing and accessories, they do so based on what THEY think looks good. Not because they want attention or are insecure or need to make a “statement”. (I’m sure that does happen– but it is not the experience of most women on most days.)
Incidentally, it’s the man’s responsibility not to “gaze at the women”. Not the women’s responsibility to accept extra tznius chumras for the sake of the men’s neshamos.