IMHO, the question really needs to be answered between the siblings. An older sibling needs to give her/his blessing and permission to a younger sibling to date and marry before them. We all know that each shidduch happens “b’zmano”. Everyone at the right time, with the right person. We know this because so many shidduchim are do overs with the same people but it just wasn’t the right time the first or even the second (some times) around when they dated. So the opinions of others really doesn’t count. Siblings need to love each other enough and care about each other enough to be sensitive to each other’s feelings and needs, give each other enough of a chance and then wish each other best and allow Hashem to do what he does best.
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