So if I say that people should wait to get married to finish their education and have a stable job, no one would agree because where is the bitachon?
But its ok to say you don’t need to get married young if your older sibling hasn’t found anyone, limiting your own chances and prospects.
Women actually don’t NEED to get married at all. In fact, with the industrial revolution and as womens liberation has progressed, women need men less and less. Perhaps this should be a spinoff thread though.