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“But its ok to say you don’t need to get married young if your older sibling hasn’t found anyone, limiting your own chances and prospects”

You are missing the point. I explained it before but ill say it again. Someone thats fresh out of seminary does not NEED to get married so young- especially if there is an older unmarried sibling. It wont ruin her chances if she goes out a year or two later- there is no rush. However if a year or two passes and the older sibling is still single- than there is no reason for the younger one to wait bec. it may limit her chances. Again its a personal sensitivity- not everyone feels the same way.