Reply To: Waiting For An Older Sibling

…”This must be hard for your parents.” (Yes, I have heard all the above!)”- Well oomois- in my family, there were a few siblings all in shidduchim (very close in age) and ppl used to tell my parents, “you are not worried- that they are not married yet…?” and they answered, “Why should we be worried we are doing our hishtadlus so this is the way it supposed to be.” Anyway in a short amount of time, a few got married;)

And i think bec. they were so upbeat about it, we didn’t feel any pressure, or sad about it. A lot is attitiude!