Sparkly, as a “kiruv specialist” you might have been able to figure out that Miamilawyer is perfectly capable of finding a chabad or aish or other kiruv environment IF THAT WAS WHAT HE WANTED. He was able enough to find the Yeshivaworld coffee room, which is arguably a bit harder to find.
Simple conversation with God fearing Jews seems to be what Miamilawyer is engaging in (correct me if I am wrong) and demonstrating interest in. He doesn’t seeem to be out to “convert” anyone to a cause. So perhaps just engage, and if the hashpaah accomplished is so important to you, Sparkly, then make good arguments, and listen to what he is saying.