Sparkly, yes I know…perhaps you didn’t see the original comment I was responding to.
I.M. Shluffin wrote “There’s something incredible and otherworldly about opening a sefer and learning it, connecting it to other sources, discussing it (or arguing about it, if you’re a man)”.
My point is that it is not only men who argue back and forth when they learn Gemara together. Women who learn Gemara do the same.