Happygirlygirl – while I could understand why you would want to meet someone in real life, it really is probably not a good idea. First of all, it could be dangerous. I don’t think that you or Sparkly are dangerous, but you just never know. And once it starts with the two of you, there could be bad people lurking out there who will get the idea in their head to pretend to be another Frum girl around your ages in order to trap you into meeting them. As long as the moderators have a policy of not allowing people to meet, it sets a certain protection.
But the other thing is that I have a feeling that a lot of people may be very different in real life than the way they seem. Not because they are pretending, but because you really don’t know them even if you think you do, and you could meet s.o. & be really disappointed by what they are like in real life.
just my opinion.