Person1, you know yourself best and welcome to the posting area of the CR!
Do what you think, if you have had that many bad dates with extrovert girls than go after introverts. But I think if something is redt to you, it’s min hashamayim. If everything else is a good match I suggest you go out with her. Certainly don’t look for extraverts, but if one comes to you I think it’s hishtadlus to check it out.