The Passuk in Beraishis (Perek Beis Passuk Yud Ches says “?? ????????? ??????? ???????? ??? ???? ?????? ??????? ???????? ???????? ???? ????? ???????????:
The words Ezer K’negdo can be understood in various ways. One way is a “helper opposite him” meaning a helper who is the opposite of him. This could mean that someone with the same core values but opposite personalities may be suited for one another.
May Hashem let you find your barshet b’korov.