Syag l’chachma: let me present it to you this way: What if I had said that I prefer wearing colored clothing to wearing black clothing and that I think it’s a bad idea for someone to only wear black clothes every day? Would you have found that offensive?
And I’m just wondering if you think about it, if you can see why, as an older single with grey hair, I might have been slightly bothered by all of your comments about older singles with grey hair? It wasn’t the biggest deal (just slightly upsetting), but it is hard for me to understand why you took offense at my comment that I prefer to dye my hair, yet don’t understand why I may have been a bit hurt by your comments. It’s not the biggest deal, but I would appreciate it if you would try to see where I was coming from. Thank you!