Sparkly – actually, I don’t think it’s necessarily insulting to suggest that s.o. go to a therapist. It depends how it’s done. If you say that you think that everyone in the world should go to a therapist, there’s nothing insulting about that.
Not everyone thinks there’s something insulting about seeing a therapist. Some people think that it’s a very positive thing to do, and something that everyone should do. Some people think it’s a sign of being a healthy person. More and more people today feel this way.
btw, just for the record, I put a ticket in OORAH’s auction for a therapist even before I knew they weren’t announcing that winner.