Person1 – I’m sure that none of my sisters’ resumes looked ANYTHING like mine or each others’ even when we were younger. None of us are AT ALL alike!
Joseph: I’m not judging his personality or Neshama. It’s something that bothers me. You can’t marry someone who does something that bothers you. Everyone has things that bother them and are reasons why they won’t marry someone. Rav Yaakov Kaminetzky Zatsal’s granddaughter didn’t want to go out with someone again because of something that bothered her (can’t remember what, but it was something superficial like the way he walked or something) and he thought that was a legitimate reason not to go out again.
Also, whether or not someone can write in his native language does show something about him. It doesn’t make him a bad person, but it does make him a different type than me. It is important to me that the guy I marry is intelligent and educated and intellectual and articulate.