Personally, I find this type of question troubling.
We’ve already set up so many roadblocks to possible matches (by making it practically impossible for couples to meet on their own) and then compounded it by ritualizing the process so much (on this date you have to wear this, this is only appropriate from date X and onward, you can only discuss this on such and such date, etc.) that there is practically no room for individuality and personal expression.
The Wolf