“Don’t worry too much about Medrashim and Kabala when it comes to marriage. Rely on your common sense, marry someone you like who is a good person and makes sense for you, get married l’shem Shamayim with bitachon in Hashem, and whoever you marry is your beshert by definition of the fact that you married them!”
Well said
However people should worry about Medrashim and Kabala when it comes to divorce
Somehow it’s then they choose downplay them