Reply To: Is there only one person whom you can successfully marry?

I once heard that every person has 7 potential mates, each on a different level of ruchniyus. Depending on where they are holding when they are dating. that is the zivug they will end up marrying.

I also learned that you are the only one that could push away your zivug. For example, your mother cant say no to the”right one.” The way you could push your zivug away is for saying no for the wrong reasons…