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Abba_S – i know your exaggerating by saying “must divorce her” but i agree this is an abusive relationship. thank G-d i havent talked to her for almost a whole week and starting to feel a LOT better without her. i dont forgive her but i am starting to say that ill allow Hashem to take care of her. she still hasnt apologized or asked mechilla and its been a week and shes still texting me as if she did nothing wrong and i just ignore her texts. h’h soon shell wake up and realize what she did…. for now i am pretending like she doesnt exist…