Reply To: how to get rid of a grudge?

i still havent forgiven her and its been a month now. i stopped talking to her and b’h i barely have thought about her since i have SO MUCH stuff going on. just the other day someone reminded me of her and people keep bringing her up in conversations and being like so “how is she” since they knew that i use to be friends with her and i dont know what to respond. what should i say?