I don’t think i am so strong, i just think that there are different types of people.
I have to many cleints after having babies are on the verge…simply from lack of rest sleepless nights and overworked
I’m sorry. i have to question them being on the verge “simply” from anything. Having a baby is draining, exhausting, emotional etc but it takes some serious systemic problems to put a mom “on the verge”. Maybe there are some family dynamics that can be adjusted to make her life better long term.
If someone WANTS to go away to rest up a bit, as LF mentioned, that’s great. So be it. But if someone needs to get away for 3 days so they don’t have a breakdown, and going home means the one’s who would have helped her get away are no longer available to pitch in then it isn’t about them not being “strong”.