absan: I was saying that when my wife gave birth, we bottle fed and the nighttime hours (10:00 PM – 6:00 AM) were mine to take care of the newborn while my wife slept. There is an old joke about fathers sleeping like babies…..up every three hours and very cranky. It has been a while since we had our youngest child.
As I said my wife made her own decision as to where to go from the hospital. She did not want to go to her parents (even with our bechor). She felt that being home was the best thing for her.