“They all want, not future Gedoilim and Roshei Yeshiva, but current ones,
with them already assuming the position of Rebbetzin/Balas Mussar to their
husbands, dreying them a kop if they are running a little late for shacaris,
or if they step out to bring in the mail without their hat & jacket”
They are expecting from their husbands what has been expected of them.
In many girls’ schools perfection is the minimum standard.
In the Yated Neeman stories how girls are rejected in Shiduchin because of percieved imperfections (“lack of sensitivity in the area of …”) re-inforce this minimum standard of perfection.