Reply To: halacha thread by Sparkly

apushatayid – even if its not because of halachic purposes hanging out with the other gender just for social purposes is like killing time because you cant talk to them when you and them get married to other people. like for someone whos a girl if your friends with a guy theres no reason to be because you cant talk to them once you get married and they can be friends with your husband, NOT you so you cant really choose out your husbands friends. i was having a HUGE disagreement with a not frum girl on this that said that she has guy friends and they got married and she didnt want to hang out with the wives she only wanted to hang out with the husbands so now their not really friends anymore so i said that thats the reason why you SHOULDNT have guy friends.