Reply To: Going off the Derech

far east- I think one of my problems is that it’s hard for me to believe that a person can be completely frum, and be so immersed in the tumah of such music and videos. To me it seems like a contradiction. And it’s not like it doesn’t affect him ,bc he not only sings some of the songs in the house, but he uses the language/expressions that he learned from it. I’m afraid that eventually all that music/videos could pull him away even further.