Finally I might suggest moving from your community. A “torah” community that tells Lashon Horah about its residents because they dont follow their exact Hashkafa is no torah community. You can debate about Hashkafa, but Lashon Horah is an AVERIRAH M’Doraisa.
By making the accusation that a certain community is more guilty of loshon horah than another, you’ve just been motzi shen ra on that community.