Did he not join you at the shabbos table? Was he mechalel shabbos?
I know it may be hard- but 12 pages of very good advice and all we know are just bits of information.
if he is still in contact with his Rosh Yeshiva, thats a good thing.
if he still comes home- thats a good thing. If he still is talking to you- thats a good thing.
I don’t understand the situation and can’t help you anymore.
Do you think everyone keeps this thread on their speed-dial?
No offense. Only a few people actually continue to keep commenting. I’m sorry if I’m not fully engaged in reading every comment posted.