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Wat could help someone come bak on is first of all 2 relize the beauty of being Jewish. Also the Jewish society now a days is very strict. There not open -minded at all and I think that that’s y ppl. Go off cuz there pressurized. We’re living in gulus rite now and every ones affected by the outside world. But because the rebbetzins and rabbi.s r very close -minded ppl. Fall under the pressure. Teens start believing that it’s either very frummy or off. Another problem is that if ur not perfect ur going 2 be labeled as going off even if u r a good person ho believes in G -d ,but if u watch movies or even look at a boy then ur off. So they don’t feel accepted by the frum ppl. Jst because there not perfect but the off world is always accepting. The frummy ppl. Look down at u if ur not like them but the OTD ppl. Are always way more accepting. Do help someone come bak on is 2 make them relize that no ones perfect and the only thing he has 2 do is believe in G -d. And then they will come 2 the realization that Jewish is beautifull. I personally have a lot of friends ho went off cuz of the society telling them that they’re not a good person because they watch movies and look at boys.