Reply To: Going off the Derech

aries2756-the problem with turning a deaf ear to his negativity, is that when he was 2yo, it was only tantrums. But now, it’s accusations, sarcasm, and rejection. And all this after loving/caring for him for 16 years. It’s much harder to take. And my guilt does make me feel inadequate, and when he goes there, it just depresses me even more. And maybe he does feel a sense of entitlement, he is the bechor, and always enjoyed all the privileges and exemptions that came with that title. It’s hard for him to face the real world. But I accept all your points, and will try to incorporate them when dealing with him…thanks