WOW, my point is this. If you are posting just for the accolades of feeling or being right, and you need to be right, and that will make you stop and consider however the negative effect your post is having rather than the positive one you intended, then I will tell you that you are right. Your original thought was well intended but maybe not thought out to the end of its path. Being right doesn’t necessarily make you happy nor solve the issue, it just gives you that gold star for being right.
So if this particular poster has a need to be right and she will continue the exchange until someone tells her that she is right, I will do it now and end the babble which will only lead to more pain.
I hope that you can recognize my intention here and not fault me for choosing sides. Please read my post again.