I almost went to a mixed school. Everyone before would call me OTD and the place i live there more layed back then some other frum communities. The reason I stopped was because I wanted to marry a Rabbi and i still do “OTD” things just not in public like go swimminng in mixed pools, listen to not jewish music, go to the theatre, wear shorter skirts when i’m only with girls, etc… without people knowing because it’s not within the frum community and i eventually plan on stopping when H’H i’m married.
