It just has to do with the fact that the whole shidduch system is not a good system for me right now for many reasons,
The problem with any one system is that it is not one size fits all. I know people who the more modern dating was a better system for them (Like people from more modern backround with not such yichus) and I know others where the more traditional Shidduch system was better as they dont appear as good on first meeting than they really are