lilmod, do we prioritize our spouses over our Creator, Father and King?
Although much can be said about those who do leave early for ulterior motives, your point isn’t a valid one. When you say it like that, obviously your duty to HKB”H takes precedence to any other duty. But the duty to others can often be the Rotzoin Hashem.
Also, I don’t think a spouse is something to be prioritized altogether. “Ishto k’gufo.” Does one prioritize himself?
Of course HKB”Hs Will comes before a persons own. One certainly doesn’t prioritize himself. Batel Retzoincho Mipnei Retzonoi…