moser din al chaveiro is when you suggest that someone should get punished min hashamayim for causing you harm or distress or some other misfortune. when someone does that they need to first and foremost be correct that that person is to blame and secondly be on a very high madreiga that they don’t deserve any punishments too. because if you aren’t both of those it’ll come back to you. like the pesukim say “orrecha arrur”. basically very dangerous. when you say someone is gonna give a din vcheshbon because of something they did to you your doing just that. this is not about venting feelings or lashon hara but infinitely more severe. our job in this world is to try to forgive and move on although it may be very difficult at times. but if we do that hashem will forgive us for our misdeeds even though they may be difficult to forgive for. if we can’t forgive at least lets not curse them.
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