cshapiro-
never said you were tacky, just that people who wear pantyhose with toes sticking out look tacky. Its like wearing a spaghetti strap top with a shell underneath. Hello??
And going by what you said in other threads, you seem not to wear pantyhose all the time anyway, so don’t take offense.
No, technically toes are not ervah, but it is minhag hamakom not to go around with bare toes, so that is considered halachah for us, so no I am not imposing my machmirim as you call it, just merely stating the halacha.
Dunno-
it actually is a matter of tsnius, you just choose to ignore it.
“perfectly fine”
by whose standards?
And if you would do something otherwise, why would the “not good for shidduchim” excuse mean anything to you. Do you want a guy who wants a girl who walks around in flip flops? If yes, then no prob. If not, then why are you doing it to begin with?