pumper why dont u start a new thread about what you consider to be fashion nonos!!!
I would love if u could define minhag hamakom for me, and let me know who sets these standards???? is that like wearing tights in Jerusalem and flip flops in Eilat??? maybe my seminary and high school neglected to inform me of certain halachos, i guess they figured they were obvious….oh welll you live and learn rite?
dunno…as someone mentioned its crucial to be the real you. sometimes i wear short skirts or red dresses, but thats who i am, and if a guy doesnt want the real me than its not shayach, im not gonna fake it just to score a shidduch…