“You just sparked a rant:
I am very against people who give up their kids beds for a guest.
You think you are teaching chessed. But, chessed is when you give up from yourself for others; you are teaching to give up from someone else for others.
If you want to teach chessed, give up your own bed.”
Like the fellow who dosn’t put an air condition in the kids room because he wants to teach them “histapkus b’miyut” but of course he has one in his room.