LiteBrite: To your question if someone had such an influential Rabbi and listened 100% – count me in!!!!
I had a few “tryouts”. One was told by my Rabbi it’s not for me… and dropped it. Yes, it hurt, nevertheless followed, did not doubt my Rabbi’s word, moved on… btw.. I found out later it would have been pretty bad…..
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