To my detractors – It seems we are at an impasse, I think you should contact a competent Rabbi in your neighborhood with the following questions:
A) Is this a case of Motzi Shem Ra?
B) Is this a case of ” Chusid BeKasheruim Loke Begofo.” one who false accuses someone is hit on his body?
C) Is this a case of “Malbin Penay Chavero Ain Lo Chalek Li Olam Haba” One who public embarrasses his friend loses his portion in the next world?
D) Is this a case of Chota oh Machta as Harabim a sinner who gets others to sin by getting other to follow her ways?
As to why I am allowed to respond to your accusations and not be guilty of public embarrassing you. They are:
A) I am allowed to respond to False allegations in the manner they were presented to me.
B) I never refereed to you by name at any time just like I am not accusing you now. You on the other hand name me.
C) I put a disclaimer stating that this is only my opinion and MAY NOT be Jewish Law so perhaps you didn’t sin and so can’t claim that I embarrassed you. You on the other hand claim I have sinned and did embarrass me.
The Rabbi maybe able to explain the error of my ways with citation as to why I am wrong, which you can post so that I will know. On the other hand he maybe able to explain the error of your ways.I don’t understand what you get to gain. If I am right you lose your portion in the next world and are punished in this world also. If you are right the only thing you get is the satisfaction of knowing your right. Is it worth the risk?