Abba, In order to ask a sheilah, I need to know what the sheilah is. You claimed that your statement was not Motzi Shem Ra as there was a toeles. I explained to you that the fact that there is a toeles does not make something mutter as there are many conditions. I explained what those conditions are and how they were not fulfilled here. So what is your question?
Regarding my “embarrassing you in public”, I also explained to you why that was both muttar and required. So what is your question?
If you have a question, I would be happy to ask. So please explain what it is.