Little Froggie, I am very curious as to when you changed your mind and why. You started off with this comment:
“Toeles does NOT automatically remove the prohibition. There are a lot of other criteria to satisfy. One and one of the main is to know for certain that it’s true. WHICH YOU MOST CERTAINLY DON’T. (unless you’re the ‘him’!!!) Do YOU know there’s no Rabbi?!? Do YOU know the underlying issue?!?
And pray tell what is your toeles. Do you think by joining the badwagan and automatically condemning, besmirching the one party, that the other will be mollified, comforted??”
That was way stronger than anything I said! And then suddenly you are arguing against my saying that it was Motzi Shem Ra? Why the sudden change without any explanation? And if you weren’t convinced that it was LH/MSR in the first place, why would you have spoken so harshly?