Little Froggie Thank you for your support. I realize I can’t convince my detractors.
Regarding the Guys explain this behavior, was she interested in girls opinions also or only guys opinions?
I also theorize that one of the reason for the couple’s breakup was that there was too much calling and texting between them. The boy/man felt pressured into getting married. He asked his Rabbi and was probably told if he had any doubts break it off. It’s not fair to date when you have doubts rather let your partner date while you resolve the problem. This may explain why the boy does not want her to call the Rabbi as the Rabbi can’t really tell her anything as to why they broke up. If it is meant to be the couple will be setup again. Husbands are like fish you have to reel them in slowly otherwise they fight and run away. But unlike fishing the girl needs to go slowly and convince the boy (the fish)that he is actually reeling her in. Boys don’t like it when beautiful and intelligent girls try to pressure them to marry them.
I also doubt Lavender will read this post but it may help explain her situation. As this is the only explanation which doesn’t accuse the boy of having a physical or mental problems preventing from marrying.
I hope all the singles in the coffee room get married this year 5777 and build a true house in the nation of Israel.