“Now you two are just acting silly.”
Huh? That’s both insulting and random. Neither I nor DY said anything that was the slightest bit silly. What I was trying to say was that I thought that the way you expressed yourself was offensive. I was TRYING to say it in a nice way.
I see now that you didn’t mean for it to come out the way that it did, but I think it should have been expressed differently. I also really don’t think that anything should have been said at all if you are not sure if there is a halachic issue, especially since this is something that everyone does and is very mekubal.