LU -“Who said I was hesitant to get married??!! Talk about making assumptions!!! One of the most common stereotypes around is that anyone who is older and single is obviously too picky.”
There was a reason for my assumption in your case!
From your posts you give the appearance that you wouldn’t settle for Stam a guy!
Did you know that there is a Chiyuv to get married – even for women?!?