To answer your question, Abba, I appreciate your concern with Motzi Shem Ra. However, I do not see any Motzi Shem Ra in Spunk’s comment which is why I agreed with it.
Spunk stated as follows: “I may be wrong, but it seems to me Torah4Me is referring to him/herself, not daughter… i.e. is this experience of worrying about said child’s questions common to other posters or is it possibly a manifestation of a more worrisome pattern in Torah4Me’s brain?
Torah4Me, please clarify.”
I understood that Spunk was simply explaining Torah4me’s comment and not in any way implying that Torah4me was lying, and that is why I agreed with it. I am not sure how someone can read into Spunk’s words that he/she was saying that Torah4me was lying, and I certainly did not (and still do not) suspect Spunk of doing so (which is why I agreed with him/her.)