“YH -“But he isn’t what I’m looking for. He’s working, he’s a great guy but I don’t know how much he still learns. He would watch a movie here and there. Etc.”
And why isn’t he what you’re looking for?!?
This whole world that working guys aren’t good enough is just a sign of the times!
Once upon a time, no girl wanted a learning guy.
I wanted to sit and learn – not because it’s the PC.”
My concern (more than the learning/working issue) is that he watches movies and you don’t even know how much he learns.
Regarding your comment, Health, about boys learning because it’s PC is not necessarily relevant since I assume that she wants a guy who is learning for the right reasons.
Also, the fact that there guys are more likely to learn today because it’s the thing to do doesn’t make it a bad thing. People are heavily influenced by society, far more than they realize. Most of the good things that people do are because of society. Better that people do good things because of society than bad things.