I don’t know why you had to revive this thread Joseph.
By now even those of us who don’t remember “Nashim b’mai zachyan” from Bais Yaakov or yeshiva, have become familiar with the basic idea.
For those of us who have been blessed with husbands and sons it’s a good think to think about.
I’m sure you realize that there are many women who live out their earthly years without those blessings. There is a tafkid for them as well, as there is for every Neshama, and a Chelek le’Olam Habbah that every person receives. Their s’char will be allotted with the same precision as mine and yours.
If you don’t realize that you’re causing these women to feel additional tza’ar, in addition to the tza’ar they must already feel at what they lack, then I’d like to bring it to your attention.
You are, as your subtitle suggests, a voluble poster, and you have your opinions, but I’ve never thought of you as a mean poster, insensitive to the pain of others.