Believing, according to the Jewish Press, looks, money and personality are all unimportant when it comes to finding a spouse. Why? Looks fade over time; money comes & goes and personality can be used against the other spouse. The one thing that matters is midos; which carries with the person through life. The problem is that a heavy girl, in today’s society, may prevent a lot of nice gentlemen from seeing and appreciating the girl’s midos. Like some of the other posters have said, you should try to get on some type of diet & exercise program that works for you. Don’t try to become real thin; that wouldn’t be healthy. May you have an easy time finding your bashert.
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