Reply To: Fear of Heaven

I understood what lilmod ulelamaid meant. It makes sense to me in context.

Thank you. Yes if being tznius was all fine and dandy with me then I could easily be like, “Yay I rock this mitzvah and it’s so important! Why don’t other people just get it? Gosh.” I wouldn’t need to empathize with anyone who may find it challenging.

But it’s not easy and part of me wants to scrap the whole idea. Even so, I am aware that yes I am biased and my attempts at disproving may be a response to the difficulty at hand. I can fight it by proving that it’s unimportant, or flight it by saying “Peace out tznius.”

Instead I am trying to work through it, whatever that means.

Thank you again